We assume you're starting from scratch. Your Ex is cold as ice and doesn't want contact or directly says they'll never be together again.
Raising a child with your Ex? Rebuild your Family in 90 days or money back*
A psychologist-led program designed to rekindle your Ex's feelings.
Especially ideal if you are co-parenting a child together after the breakup
Works even if your Ex says it's all over
No begging for attention or cutting off contact.
Do You Feel the Same?
Have you tried to convince them and ask for another chance, but feel like you're hitting a wall?
Your family fell apart and you're worried about your future?
Everyone around you says "you can't go back to your Ex" and nobody truly understands what you're feeling?
You know you're losing the love of your life, but have no idea what to do to make things right again?
Your Ex is tired of hearing from you and says they want nothing to do with you anymore?
Does every step you take only make the situation worse and push you further away from them?
It's Not Your Fault!
YOU HAVE POWERFUL OBSTACLES:
Most people convince you that your Ex will never come back - especially if they don't understand what your situation looks like and what you feel;
Nobody ever teaches us how to have a successful relationship — yet without that knowledge and conscious effort, most relationships fall apart.
There is no reliable knowledge or help on the topic of getting your Ex back. You can't rely on couples therapy anymore, as most advice on getting your Ex back is impractical or even harmful.
There Is No Argument That Will Convince Your Ex to Come Back
You Need a Long-Term Strategy and Individual Guidance
Get to Know Our Numbers
74
That's how many days on average it takes to get your ex-partner back with our help
+3000
That's how many relationships we helped save with our method
+15
That's how many years we've been helping our clients save their relationships
150
Maximum number of spots in the program
We Operate on 3 Levels
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We prepare an action strategy tailored to you
We will craft a bespoke action strategy tailored specifically to your family dynamics. You will master exactly what to say and how to carry yourself to stop the cycle of rejection and start rebuilding attraction. We’ll show you how to trigger genuine nostalgia so your Ex naturally begins to miss you. You won’t just avoid common mistakes—you’ll know exactly how to handle the first signs of success. You receive a comprehensive step-by-step individual plan backed by ongoing strategic consultations throughout the entire program.
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Experience a Profound Personal Transformation
Your chances of restoring your relationship skyrocket when you evolve beyond the version of you that they left. We provide the strategic frameworks to regulate your post-breakup emotions, eliminate future-focused anxiety, and gain the objective clarity needed to navigate this crisis. You will rebuild unshakeable self-confidence and reprogram the behavioral patterns that previously caused friction.
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Master the Core Pillars of Relational Intelligence
Your Ex needs more than words; they need to witness a tangible evolution in your character. We will teach you how to de-escalate conflict to near zero, handle high-pressure interactions with total composure, and rebuild a bulletproof foundational bond. This is essential wisdom that will elevate every connection in your life—far beyond just your romantic partnerships.
NOW - you're on our website
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NOW - you're on our website
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You book a call with us
You choose a date and pick up the phone. In the first free consultation, we'll study your situation. You'll hear a detailed diagnosis of whether we can help you. If you have a very difficult situation, here we'll end our adventure.
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You start the program
Right after entering the program, we give you access to the most important strategic knowledge you need to acquire as quickly as possible. As soon as you pass, you immediately schedule a consultation with a Strategic Expert who will create an individual action plan for you for the near future.
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You influence your Ex's emotions
Stop trying to convince your Ex to come back or begging for another chance. It doesn't work. There is nothing you can say that will make your Ex change their mind. Instead, you need to follow a carefully planned path of specific actions and messages that will naturally draw your Ex back to you. This is a process that will take several weeks — depending on your situation.
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You regularly consult with a Strategic Expert
It's important that you're in constant contact with the Expert and keep them informed about progress and challenges that appear along the way. You can schedule individual consultations at any working day of the week.
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You engage in development
Each of the 13 weeks of the program comes with a scheduled set of courses and exercises to complete. You'll work on your relationship skills, but also on your overall attractiveness — for example, you'll build your confidence, learn how to hold an engaging conversation, and discover how to be a challenge for your Ex.
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Everyone around you sees your change
You work side by side with a team of experts, so everyone around you will notice you're changing — including your Ex. Equally important is knowing how to communicate that change effectively, so your Ex can clearly see it.
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You eliminate the logical barriers standing between you and your Ex
Your Ex sees that you've changed and feels that you've addressed the things that pushed them away before the breakup. There is nothing left blocking your Ex from reaching out to you.
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You renew or intensify contact
Once you've taken care of all the elements of the strategy and start seeing signs of interest from your Ex, it's time to take more decisive action. This is a delicate phase where you need to stay in constant contact with your Strategy Expert. Acting on your own here can have catastrophic consequences and undo everything you've built so far.
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You move your relationship with your Ex forward
Depending on the results, you take two steps forward or one step back. Rebuilding a relationship can't happen overnight — not on the first date, not on the second. You need to start seeing each other again as if you were just getting to know each other for the first time.
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You get your Ex back
Three months from today, you're back with your Ex. You can see that your partner is falling for you all over again. It feels as beautiful as it did at the beginning — but this time, you've learned your lessons and your relationship will be resilient to future breakups. This is the true meaning of "every cloud has a silver lining."
You Don't Have to Take Our Word for It.
Our Results Speak for Themselves.
From a relationship full of tension, silence, and lack of contact, we moved to one based on understanding and calm communication. Today, we are together and building something completely new — consciously and with greater closeness.
Participant's Opinion
Before: The participant, after the breakup, felt lost and didn’t know how to fix the situation. The relationship was full of arguments, tension, and unresolved emotions, and her partner avoided contact.
After: After getting back together, their relationship quickly began to change — within 5 months they got engaged and are now planning their wedding. Arguments no longer dominate their daily life, and the relationship is now built on a more conscious approach and better mutual understanding.
Participating in the Program was one of the best things I've done for myself in my life. My partner and I rediscovered ourselves, during the time we worked on ourselves and our relationship, we learned new things daily, we support each other - even in very difficult times. My whole life has changed thanks to the Program.
Participant's Opinion
Before: The participant ended the relationship herself, in which there was a lot of conflict and misunderstandings.
After: A relationship built on new foundations - full of understanding for the other person, warmth, self-acceptance and empathy. Conflicts practically don't occur - and if they do, resolving them through conversation is a peaceful conversation, which eliminates conflict at the root.
My relationship is now completely different than it used to be! I became a completely different version of myself - and I'm working on that! Currently we're in great contact, we plan vacations together. Without participating in the Program, I would have taken much longer, and maybe I wouldn't have been able to do it. Everything is explained in the program - how to act, what to pay attention to. This simply changed a lot on many levels.
Participant's Opinion
Before: 3 years together. Infidelity occurred, which caused the ex-partner to withdraw.
After: Thanks to the Program, the participant regained the relationship. Much more natural contact appeared between the partners. They plan a future together, building a new relationship based on mutual trust and respect for each other.
At first I was skeptical about the methods used in the Program, but thanks to my psychologist leading the course - I'm here where I am today, by my partner's side, in a happier relationship that we're building together from scratch.
Participant's Opinion
Before: Very high anger - spending time together personally even with the child, lack of proper communication.
After: The relationship is such that it never was - fundamentally ideal. No conflicts, hostility. Instead full of feelings and support.
I managed to get my partner back practically two months after joining the Program. Now it's great, much better than before the breakup.
Participant's Opinion
Before: Over 9 years together, two children. The relationship started to fall apart a few years ago. Ex felt they had too many responsibilities accumulated. The moment of joining the program the wife introduced herself and asked for a break, she also said she wanted a divorce.
After: The wife did not decide on filing for divorce. They spend much more time on shared trips and only together. They live together and the atmosphere and communication is much better.
It's much better between us, especially if it comes to contact and their interest. The success of this contributed primarily to all the knowledge from relationship courses and individual consultations with the psychologist. People in the program are hugely supportive, which is friendly for life.
Participant's Opinion
Before: 1.5 years together. A very big problem with jealousy and episodes of depression appeared. Differences of character caused many misunderstandings and a feeling of lack of relationship sense.
After: Communication is at a much better level, thanks to which solving ongoing problems comes much easier. The relationship is being built anew and consciously, with mutual understanding.
After 7 months, again they moved in together, earlier they thought they would get back together. Again entering a relationship looks like they started everything from the beginning, as if they threw away everything from the past. The course showed Wojtek the essence of how to properly behave in a relationship.
Participant's Opinion
Before: Lack of a friendly bond, lack of engagement, stagnation, lack of interest in each other.
After: Huge personal metamorphosis - which had a very good effect on renewing the relationship with the ex-partner.
We got back together after a month! We have much more time for each other - it's much more quality time. I noticed what mistakes I made, and the Program helped me fix it very quickly, which resulted in returning to my partner.
Participant's Opinion
Before: Lack of engagement, spending time separately, lack of a friendly bond.
After: Rediscovering the relationship anew, quality time together, noticing flaws and working on them.
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Jurek Bohdanowicz:
"Establishing cooperation with the Institute was the beginning of my work on myself and my life metamorphosis. After over a year I can say that it is one of the best invested money in my life. I recommend it to everyone, who is like me at a crossroads and is looking for help in this year."
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Sometimes It's Really Better to Let Go!
It's not worth fighting for someone unless you're truly certain they are the right person you want to spend the rest of your life with. If before the breakup you were already thinking about ending the relationship yourself, then what you're feeling now is wounded ego — and this relationship is not worth saving.
It's not worth fighting for someone unless you're truly certain they are the right person you want to spend the rest of your life with. If before the breakup you were already thinking about ending the relationship yourself, then what you're feeling now is wounded ego — and this relationship is not worth saving.
It's not worth pursuing a reconciliation if you're planning to wing it and just go with your gut. If it's been more than 2 weeks since the breakup and you haven't naturally found your way back to each other, chances are you won't on your own. The harder you push, the worse it gets.
In which situations do we NOT help?
We receive more applications than we can handle, which is why we only accept people who have a real chance of getting their relationship back
Here's a list of cases when we won't even take on the challenge:
Your Ex is already in a new relationship.
If they have genuinely fallen for someone else, we won't be able to help. However, if your Ex is simply dating around or has just started seeing someone, chances are you still have a shot — and we can help you take it.
There is a significant distance between you and your Ex.
If you live in different countries or are separated by hundreds of miles with no realistic chance of meeting without a long journey, unfortunately this is not something we are able to help with.
You have a court-issued restraining order against you.
Unfortunately, this is not a situation we are able to help with.
You are not willing to work on yourself.
For the reconciliation to succeed, you need to understand and own your mistakes — and be willing to learn a great deal. We don't work with people who are not committed to personal growth.
When do you absolutely MUST fight for your love?
You know you want to spend the rest of your life with this person and getting back together is not just a passing impulse.
You are perfectly matched and you truly love spending time with this person.
You have children together and you're fighting not just for the relationship, but for your family.
You are open to working on yourself and eliminating the mistakes that led to the breakup in the first place.
When do you have the greatest chances?
You have children together and/or still live together — this gives you enormous room to influence your Ex's emotions, because you will constantly be in contact during childcare. Your Ex also has a powerful logical reason to give you another chance.
You still share some aspects of life. You have a business together, you run into each other in various places. The more you have in common, the easier it is to develop an effective strategy — because you can influence your Ex through everyday interactions.
The longer you were together, the better your chances. The more good memories you share, the more mutual friends you have — all of this will constantly remind your Ex of you.
Your Ex is open to contact with you. If after the breakup your Ex says they want nothing to do with you, but still picks up the phone without hesitation or even reaches out themselves — that gives you far more room to influence this person. It also gives you a stronger head start.
The less time has passed since the breakup, the better. The fresher the emotions, the more your Ex is thinking about you — and the fewer mistakes you've had the chance to make since the breakup. The sooner you reach out to us after the breakup, the better — but even if several months have passed, you still have a chance.
What's NOT worth worrying about?
Your Ex insists they no longer have feelings for you and that it's definitely over. This is completely normal — if it weren't the case, the breakup wouldn't have happened in the first place. The real skill is in reigniting the feelings that were alive not so long ago. We'll show you exactly how to do it.
Your Ex wants no contact right now. Even if you're blocked and currently can't call or message your Ex, it doesn't mean it will stay that way. There is a good chance that after a series of the right strategic moves, your Ex will unblock you themselves — or even reach out on their own.
Your Ex's family or friends don't like you. This is a common concern that needs to be taken into account, but it's not an insurmountable obstacle.
After the breakup, you spent a long time begging for them to come back. This is completely normal. Your Ex has gotten used to the idea that they can come back to you at any time — and that is exactly what is pushing them away. We'll help you change the image your Ex has of you.
Your Ex is very hostile towards you and holds a lot of resentment. Don't worry — hostility can be disarmed over time. We'll help you with that.
What are your real chances of getting your Ex back?
We don't promise miracles. You need to be prepared for the possibility that it may not work out.
Relationships involve many variables that are not entirely up to you or us. Consider these few things that will help you make your decision:
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Expect that with our help, your chances of getting your relationship back range from 20 to 70%. Without our help, your chances of it working out on its own are somewhere between 0.5 and 3%.
The decision of whether or not to join our program is really a decision of whether you want to try at all. If you are certain you want to fight for this relationship, we are your only real hope. Without professional help — it's simply not worth wasting your time and energy trying to get your Ex back on your own, and honestly, it's better to let go. You either do this right or you don't do it at all.
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What determines your chances most is how committed you are to your own growth and how consistently you implement the strategies.
There are people we openly tell that their chances are very slim — yet because they throw themselves fully into their personal development and follow the plan to the letter, they manage to get their relationship back even from a very difficult starting point. The conclusion is clear — a great deal depends on your attitude and commitment.
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You'll know you did everything in your power.
By joining the program, you'll know you did everything you could to get your relationship back — and perhaps even save your family. Without taking this step, you may spend years wondering "What if I had chosen professional help back then?" By working with us, you take your fate into your own hands.
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You can't regret the decision to join the program - if only you fully commit.
In the best case scenario, you'll learn an enormous amount, get your relationship back, and be much happier together than you were before the breakup. In the worst case scenario, you'll go through a powerful personal transformation, become far more attractive and confident — and your next relationship will be incomparably better. There is hardly a better investment of your money than an investment in your own growth.
Find out if our program is for you
Apply to the programMeet our team
Robert Marchel
Creator of the Love System method
Kacper Chmielowiec
Head trainer of the Relationship Institute method
Katarzyna Pasternak
Psychologist and Strategic Expert
Patrycja Młynarska
Psychologist and Strategic Expert
Bartłomiej Łagowski
Psychologist and Strategic Expert
Aldona Krystosik
Psychologist and Strategic Expert
Norbert Reja
Psychologist and Strategic Expert
Justyna Majchrowska
Psychologist and Strategic Expert
Katarzyna Krupińska-Rzepa
First Aid Consultant
Natalia Niezabitowska
First Aid Consultant
Karolina Cimińska
First Aid Consultant
Michał Żuchowski
First Aid Consultant
Aleksandra Pietrzak
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